‘Honour-based’ abuse and forced marriage – support is available in Sandwell
Support is available in Sandwell for anyone experiencing ‘honour-based’ abuse
or forced marriage. Twenty years ago Shafilea Ahmed was murdered by her parents in an ‘honour killing’ and the Day of Memory is inspired in memory of Shafilea’s birthday on 14 July.
The annual Day of Memory remembers both men and women affected by honour-based abuse. The term ‘honour-based’ abuse refers to controlling behaviour including physical violence and abuse motivated by a perceived need to maintain, or restore, family honour.
The punishment for bringing dishonour can be emotional abuse, physical abuse, family disownment and forced marriage where people face physical and emotional pressure to marry against their will and, in some cases, murder.
There are an estimated 12 'honour killings' each year in the UK although the exact number is unknown. Women are predominantly but not exclusively the victims.
Men can also be victims, sometimes because of their involvement in what is deemed to be an inappropriate relationship, if they are gay, or if they are believed to be supporting a victim.
So-called ‘honour-based’ abuse is hidden within families. It can take many forms of abusive behaviour and is sadly under-reported. Councillor Syeda Khatun, Sandwell Council’s Cabinet Member for Public Health and Communities, said: “Forced marriage and ‘honour-based’ abuse are not cultural traditions – they are an abuse of human rights. If you or someone you know is being forced into a marriage or experiencing ‘honour-based’ abuse, Sandwell Council and our partners can help and advise you.” Anyone who is suffering this abuse should report it to the police on 101 or, in an emergency, always call 999.
People can seek specialist support from Black Country Women’s Aid on 0121 552 6448, which is available 24 hours a day. Or text/WhatsApp on 07384 466 181 (9am-9pm Monday-Friday). People can speak to an advisor on webchat. Black Country Women’s Aid supports female and male victims of forced marriage and ‘honour-based’ abuse.
People concerned about a child who may be a victim of forced marriage or ‘honour-based’ abuse should contact Sandwell Children’s Trust on 0121 569 3100. Those concerned about an adult with care and support needs should contact Adult Social Care on 0121 569 2266.
Alternatively, there is a service for men and boys who have experienced domestic abuse, rape and sexual abuse. Contact Ask Marc by phone on 0121 289 6402, email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. or visit the Ask Marc website for more information. Birmingham LGBT Centre can also provide a range of support services for LGBT victims.
For more information visit the council's domestic abuse webpage